Most of the time this Mars and Venus theory helps you to calm yourself down after a fight with someone from opposite sex. I being an Indian male never understood the Indian female mind. It’s just kind of a bizarre thing for me. Similarly, girls also find it difficult to either understand a male mind or if they do understand it, they are most often filled with many misunderstandings about us. I talked with few of my girl-friends to understand what they actually think about men. After the discussions, these were the few points I really thought were debatable.
a) Men just want one thing
Ask any girl what men want; they always say the three letter word. Many a time, most relations face stiff arguments, just because of these misunderstanding. My girl friend had just read Chetan Bhagat’s – five point someone. And ever since then, whenever I used to hold her hands, she took it the other way!
Now let me get this straight. Emotions are something that both of the partners have, then why throw the sexual ones only into the man’s share? Can’t any guy hold his girls hand just for the sake of it? Why always brand it in a single category?
b) Cleanliness-loving man is an oxymoron
Just in case you don’t know what oxymoron is- it is defined as ‘conjoining contradictory terms.’ I agree guys love dirt and are lazy to clean there rooms, but that doesn’t mean you can brand every guy as a dirt-lover. In fact guys don’t like dirt, they just don’t mind it! If you are on the field, how can you escape dirt? It’s just the way guys grow up. they are always asked to play and play hard like a soldier which makes them comfortable with mud and dirt. If guys had been asked to play skip the rope and dolls in place of cricket and footbal we might also have been dirt concious. But just imagine your brother or boyfriend asking you to join him for a skip-the-rope and stuff like that… you would have surely freaked out, huh?
c) Clothes: the lesser the better
Thanks to some perverted minds who have led to women brand the whole male community as cloth haters. I don’t deny that Mallika Sherawat is famous because of us but remember its not men who love to see Salman, Hritik and John half naked. And if you do remember the last time Bekkham, did the act, it resulted in some big time bombings on the hoarding by his salviating female fans!
If you ask me about Indian men, then if they are serious about you, they would always like you to dress as properly as possible. In short, Indian men prefer their sisters, mother and girl friends to dress as decently as possible when they go out with them. Though they won’t mind seeing their girl friends in a revealing dress, but that’s applicable only when you two are alone.
d) Hate commitments
Changing trends have made inroads to relationship vistas as well. Earlier men used to get Goosebumps thinking about commitment, but nowadays, even the women are not very far behind. Independence, dates, career, responsibility etc are the things which trouble men from making commitments. Most of them also have a fear deep down their conscience- what if I don’t feel the same intensity of love after marriage? Now since the girls are equally concerned about the same issues, a lot of them think thrice before accepting to commit.
Though I listed these things here and many girls will read them, still I very well know that the impact of this is hardly going to last for couple of minutes!!
